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Highly intelligent but emotionally withheld, she was always quick to criticise and would never back down in any of the petty arguments with my father that characterized their relationship. My mother was, and still is, the dominant force in my family of origin.

I am a sensitive person and was deeply traumatized by the never-ending conflict and hostility in my parent’s relationship. Graham’s Story I suffered from a chronic lack of self-confidence right from early childhood through most of my adult life.
